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Brenda's Resting Place?
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Patricia Butler
2005-08-24 04:43:17 UTC
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Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
green_man
2005-08-24 17:28:31 UTC
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Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.


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Messalina
2005-08-25 19:51:17 UTC
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Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.

Mez
Sparky Spartacus
2005-08-25 21:02:39 UTC
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Post by Messalina
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Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.
Probably at least partly due to their final conversation in the hospital
right before Nate died. Also possible this is what they decided
beforehand. Naming babies these days can get complicated if the mom has
a different last name from the pop. Hyphenate - yes/no? If you do, which
name goes first? What might the surname look like after 3 generations?
Messalina
2005-08-26 17:20:09 UTC
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Post by Messalina
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Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.
Probably at least partly due to their final conversation in the hospital
right before Nate died. Also possible this is what they decided
beforehand. Naming babies these days can get complicated if the mom has
a different last name from the pop. Hyphenate - yes/no? If you do, which
name goes first? What might the surname look like after 3 generations?
Thats why its puzzling. She made the decision to make Willa a
Chenowith even though her sister is a Fisher, one assumes because Nate
told her he was going to leave her. So why would she decide to be
buried near him?

Mez
Patricia Butler
2005-08-26 18:55:56 UTC
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Post by Sparky Spartacus
Post by Messalina
Post by green_man
Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.
Probably at least partly due to their final conversation in the hospital
right before Nate died. Also possible this is what they decided
beforehand. Naming babies these days can get complicated if the mom has
a different last name from the pop. Hyphenate - yes/no? If you do, which
name goes first? What might the surname look like after 3 generations?
Thats why its puzzling. She made the decision to make Willa a
Chenowith even though her sister is a Fisher, one assumes because Nate
told her he was going to leave her. So why would she decide to be
buried near him?
Mez
As someone else pointed out, the name may have had nothing at all to do
with that last conversation; it may have been something they worked out
when she was first pregnant. People are doing a lot of interesting
things with names nowadays. I have some friends who decided when they
married that either neither of them changed their last names or both of
them did. They opted for both, and so they each abandoned their own
surnames in favor of a third surname they chose together and now share.
In Nate and Brenda's case, being the kind of people they were, they
may have decided that because Maya was named Fisher, the new baby would
be named Chenowith, so both families were represented in their
offspring.
b***@yahoo.com
2005-08-26 19:32:05 UTC
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Post by Sparky Spartacus
Post by Messalina
Post by green_man
Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.
Probably at least partly due to their final conversation in the hospital
right before Nate died. Also possible this is what they decided
beforehand. Naming babies these days can get complicated if the mom has
a different last name from the pop. Hyphenate - yes/no? If you do, which
name goes first? What might the surname look like after 3 generations?
Thats why its puzzling. She made the decision to make Willa a
Chenowith even though her sister is a Fisher, one assumes because Nate
told her he was going to leave her. So why would she decide to be
buried near him?
Mez
Well a lot of decades passed between deciding what to name her daughter
and deciding where to be buried. Her feelings might have changed.

Plus we don't even know she's buried by Nate. Maybe, reflecting on
Nate's funeral she made the decision to have a similar one, but it
isn't necessarily the same nature perserve/park.
Patricia Butler
2005-08-26 20:17:32 UTC
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Post by Patricia Butler
Did anyone else notice that Brenda was buried at Deep Creek Nature
Preserve? Isn't that the same place Nate was buried?
I noticed that too and thought the same thing. Maybe it's Alan Ball's way of saying that Nate, despite everything, was the love of her life. For all his macabre leanings, Ball is, after all, a sentimentalist.
Which makes me wonder why he had Brenda name Willa Chenowith with
Fisher as her middle name.
Probably at least partly due to their final conversation in the hospital
right before Nate died. Also possible this is what they decided
beforehand. Naming babies these days can get complicated if the mom has
a different last name from the pop. Hyphenate - yes/no? If you do, which
name goes first? What might the surname look like after 3 generations?
Thats why its puzzling. She made the decision to make Willa a
Chenowith even though her sister is a Fisher, one assumes because Nate
told her he was going to leave her. So why would she decide to be
buried near him?
Mez
Well a lot of decades passed between deciding what to name her daughter
and deciding where to be buried. Her feelings might have changed.
Plus we don't even know she's buried by Nate. Maybe, reflecting on
Nate's funeral she made the decision to have a similar one, but it
isn't necessarily the same nature perserve/park.
There was a scene where David was looking on the internet for green
funerals. I'll bet if someone has that on tape, they could go to that
scene and see if the site he was looking at was for Deep Creek Nature
Preserve.

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